tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post3303906351447642843..comments2022-04-01T00:48:56.939+05:30Comments on just psychobabble: MotherinlawismDr N Shalinihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00790063925571312626noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post-66943260787221509572011-01-12T15:41:10.677+05:302011-01-12T15:41:10.677+05:30Nice article Dear shaliniNice article Dear shaliniAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post-73361634721705447912008-07-30T04:44:00.000+05:302008-07-30T04:44:00.000+05:30hello Dr.Shalini, I tried being friends with my MI...hello Dr.Shalini, <BR/><BR/>I tried being friends with my MIL... we are just in two different planet. the only bridge we have is her son that is my husband. neither of us want to cross that bridge because our way of life is different.<BR/><BR/>here I don't have possessive MIL, I have MIL that is a bit in old culture where men (especially her son) don't lend a hand around the house or being asked by the wife to do anything other than outside the house work. <BR/><BR/>every time I ask my husband to get me a glass of water or food on plate she thinks i am just treating my husband like slave. <BR/><BR/>see i am the kind i ignore people that dont understand what caring and love means. instead they just go by these rules set by someone they dont remember in their family by. <BR/><BR/>I lost my life and myself in getting married into this family. and my definition of love and caring went down the drain when my husband also forgot what it meant to us.Yamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14481332389821465023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post-86370416848578462392008-06-26T21:32:00.000+05:302008-06-26T21:32:00.000+05:30Hello Dr.Shalini, Once again a great article. Wow!...Hello Dr.Shalini, Once again a great article. Wow!!! I loved it.<BR/>I believe you are missing one scenario here. Other than having a emotionally/financially supportive husband, if a MIL gets a DIL of her own choice/or by coincidence who can be a friend to her then also the MIL doesn't care much about her son and DIL being close. She will be very happy to see her son and DIL being happy. So if the son is smart enough to get such a smart DIL for her mother and a smart wife to himself he is a WINNER!!! Can the sons find those smart DILs???? It's very hard in our culture.. when you go for a arranged marriage and don't know who you are going to get married to. If a guy get some one like that.. He is the luckiest person on earth and he will have a happy life. Rest of them... who cares?? you are not smart.. Live in HELL. Good Article!!!!Natarajanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03128796983944961443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post-81052872782564423902008-06-07T03:34:00.000+05:302008-06-07T03:34:00.000+05:30Thanks Doc .. for Pointing out the real "Motherinl...Thanks Doc .. for Pointing out the real "Motherinlawism" ... <BR/><BR/>Its quite difficult to type the word out here,I understand how difficult it is to HANDLE !!<BR/><BR/>Well .. its not too late to be a SMART SON... I WILL :-)Shafihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10085622539578108285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3768458368997649779.post-4136943823468488252008-06-05T19:27:00.000+05:302008-06-05T19:27:00.000+05:30There are always exceptions,as in everything else,...There are always exceptions,as in everything else,but to me "Motherinlawism" is synonymous with "Monsterinlawism"!Farahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05780285882849430390noreply@blogger.com